I personally want this friend out of the picture
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I wrote in a few days ago about my boyfriend's gay best friend.
I personally want this friend out of the picture. Honestly, what do I do? Say its me or him? I can't do that to him. The friend is a terrible influence on him... I hate him!
My boyfriend isn't gay and won't turn that way and he would never do anything with this friend.
Help.... this makes me so angry.
The only option you have left is to discuss this with your b/f.
Tell him how angry you are at his friend. You said you don't want to make it a "it's him or me" situation so you can't do that. All you can do is talk.
My advice is that you are going to get nowhere. They have been friends for so long and enjoy themselves so much that your comments will have no significant impact on your b/f.
Best of luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com