I feel lost without him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
my ex and I were together for almost 2 years. we were going through a rough time, and he started hanging with one of my guy friends. This turned into ignoring me, and less attention. Well he said on new years eve that he was done, he couldnt handle our situation. Two days later, i found out that he was dating my friends older sister-who is 10 years older than he is. He said that he still loved me but he didnt think that he was in love anymore. When she came up, he said he really liked her. I am soo in love with him, and i feel lost without him. I want him to know how much i love him, and how much i need to be with him, but he is still saying he's done. How can he be head over heals for me, and then it just stops. He is all that I can think about, and i want him back. I've never felt so low and confused in my life. How can i win him back and make him realize that we were meant to be?
Sometimes love comes and stays, and sometimes is comes and goes.
Be happy you are not married with children and have this happen.
Your b/f had probably tired of your relationship and when this other girl showed up he had a reason to leave.
Your best bet is to stay in weekly contact with your ex to find out how he is doing, and to let him know you still care. Be cheerful, don't dwell on your old relationship, and keep the calls short. Perhaps by being friends he will fall back in love with you.
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Good luck! George
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