He says that it is my problem and I am insecure

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
What about Porn? My boyfriend jacks off to porn on the internet and rents movies when I go out of town. I hate it. It makes me feel worthless ugly and like I will never be enough for him. If porn is what turns him on I will never be pretty enough or have a body like that. I feel like I just cant compete with something that is so fake perfect. Our relationship is really great except for this issue we never argue. He says that it is my problem and I am insecure. I agree I am insecure, low self esteem etc.
How do I just get over the fact that all men jack off to porn? Drives me crazy! Help!

RomanceClass.com Advice
Your b/f is rude, inconsiderate, and a boor.

He knows you are hurt by what he is doing and yet he throws it in your face. He could at least hide from you what he is doing. And not all guys are into porn. I don't think it has anything to do with the woman that a guy is with. In other words, it wouldn't matter if you had the body of a porn star, your b/f would still like porn.

At least get him to agree to keep the stuff away from your knowledge to whatever extent he can.

Hope this helps some! George

-- from George
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