I miss the old him

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
So a few months ago I met this guy who I never saw myself liking at all.. but we got closer and closer. He helped me through all of my problems and always had something so sweet to say to me. He asked me out but I just wasn't ready yet.. so I told him I'd think about it but never actually answered them. Then we started kissing and stuff.. and I'm not sure if he assumes that we're going out or not. But since after Thanksgiving he hasn't been the same to me. He isn't that nice guy he used to be. Especially to me. We used to talk on the phone for hours. Now when I call him I feel like I'm bothering him and he acts so annoyed. I've told him I noticed that he treats me different but he assures me that he's not and will be like he used to be for a day or so then he goes back to being mean to me. It's so tough. I just want to know what I should say to him to make him reliaze what he's doing. I just can't seem to find the right words. I miss the old him. That is the person that I absolutely adore.

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Whenever he is mean to you tell him that you feel bad and that you feel he is being mean to you.

That will get his attention fast. If he gets better but then goes back to being mean keep telling him when he is mean.

If he can't change his ways you will want to dump him and find someone nicer. Give him a month to change.

Good luck! George

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