Is it possible to love two men but just in different ways?

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Okay I have been married for a year and a half and well to be honest my heart was broken when I got married. It was broken by my one true love because he was cheating on me and then we broke up and he went to jail. Then my husband came along and we dated for like a month and got married. Well I have been in love with my ex since high school, and he got my address and started writing me from jail about how he loved me and things were gonna change. I mean I have loved him for seven years, I wanted to believe him. So In October he got out of jail and one night while my husband was at work we met up and just talked. Nothing more happened and just being around him made me feel alive so the next time he called me, we met back up and this time we had sex. My husband don't know anything about this. He has no clue what so ever. This has gona on now for three months. Me and my ex randomly get together and things happen. He says he wants to be with me and he loves me but I don't know whether to believe him or not. What do I do? Do I leave my husband for my ex who just got outta jail, has no job, no money, and no place to live? Or do I stay with my husband and keep this whole thing a secret? it's tearing me apart. Is it possible to love two men but just in different ways? Advice
Yes it is possible to love two men, but it never turns out for the good.

You have to make up your mind and do it quick. You shouldn't have to go through this stress any more than necessary.

If you love both equally then stay with your husband. Divorces can be a good thing, but in this case I don't see the need for it.

Try to stop cheating as soon as possible... you are hurting yourself.

Good luck! George

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