I really really like this girl but this game has gone on too long
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
A girl that I have known for years, one day asked me out on a date when I was home for the summer. She basically told me that she really liked me. The next day she called me and said she did not mean it. For months now we have been in touch with eachother on an almost daily basis. Some days it seems like she really likes me and wants to see me and other days, well I dunno what is going on. Case and point last week she calls me up and aks me to go out with her later in the week. Then when it gets close to the day that we are supposed to go out she says she feels bad and does not want to do anything. This has happened so many times I can't even remember how many times it has happened. Now it will be another couple weeks before she really wants to see me again and then nothing will end up happening. I really really like this girl but this game has gone on too long and I feel like sh*t for weeks after this happens. Please tell me what is going on.
You really need to cut bait and move on because this girl is pitiful.
Never agree to a date again and don't contact her anymore.
If she asks why, you can tell her (if you want to) that her behavior over the past months has just made you feel miserable what with all her changing her mind. If she promises to change her ways give her another chance if you want, but I don't hold out much hope that she is going to change.
Give yourself a break and tell her to take a hike.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com