Can this be rekindled?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I met someone online and we clicked, we became very good friends. We met in real and were intimate, we worked through some intimacy/shy issues and all was good. Then my ex wanted me to give him another chance. We share a lot of history and he can be very manipulative, so I broke things off with the person I cared about and let him know that I loved him but felt like I had to do this. Of course the ex and I lasted a week afterwards. While the one I loved, acted as if the break up had never happened, assured me we are still friends, goes out of his way to still talk to me but not be with me when he talks to me and said that he has never loved. Doesn't discuss our relationship or it's possibilities or lack of them at all. Can this be rekindled? I would like to believe there is hope as we have maintained a friendship and he still talks to me....
It's difficult to guess whether this can be rekindled or not.
You will have to spend time with him to get him to trust you again. Who knows how long that might take. But that's the way to go if you want him.
Maybe he is a cold fish (you would know) and isn't going to fall in love with anyone. If he is normal, then I have to ask myself how I would react to what you did. It would take me a while before I could trust you again.
That, to me, is what you should be concentrating on.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com