Am I crazy to want her back?
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male
I want my ex back. Hi you have a nice service here.I`m glad I stumbled across it. Well you see this is my problem. I have this now again exgirl friend You see we stared dating in Oct.2oo4 I had been friends with her and we laughed alot.Then she asked me out. We have great chemistry on alot of levels. At the beginning I did`nt know that she always had a thing for her divorce lawyer who was still with his wife then.Anyhow she dumped me in early Feb.2005 saying that she love me but was`nt really in love with me. She then had a fling with the still married lawyer. I suffered great heartbreak.We were apart 3 months.Somehow or other we began talking again. she send him back to his wife as she was uncomfortable with the situation.So I nervously took her back and forgave her.Everything felt great and new.Better than the first time.For the rest of 2005 we loved and enjoy each other alot. Then in early Dec.2005 she started talking about us briefly taking time apart so she could think things through. I felt nervous about this.Anyhow shortly after she came to me and said that it was unfair to me that I was giving her more love than she was giving me.Then she said that she ran into her lawyer on the street on day,he told her that he was leaving his wife this timt he was serious and all her strong feelings for him returned. And that she was leaving me to go back to him have something with him that she`s never had a chance to experience completely. I really do love her dearly and when we`re together we`re electric and it`s special. She says that when she`s with him she feels euphoria and that her feet are off the ground.She is sounding like a teen age girl and she`s 49.So I miss her severely.We`re are still talking. I thought it was`nt possible. Me and some of her closest friends think that she`s gone off the deep end! She knows how deeply I feel about her so I`m trying to give some space. I said go to him if you must , but I still adore you. Am I crazy to want her back? I just have this deep feeling that ew feel right together.She was married once with children. and has`nt had many relationships in her life. She has a good heart, She just gets confused every now and again and pulls back she tells me . I want her back.Any powerful ideas?
You're not crazy to want her back... you love her.
Unfortunately it appears that her true love is her lawyer. Now that he is available she is going to him.
There are no great ideas that will solve this problem.
The best you can do is to keep letting her know you love her and are waiting for her. You will have to decide how long you are willing to wait... that will come with time.
Sorry you are in this situation! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com