We've been together for 8 months
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my ex-boyfriend had been friends for at least 4 months before we got together. We've been togehter for 8 months. the first time we broke up, it was because he said he didn't want me anymore and that he thought i thought something was going on between him and his best friend. it was the summer, so i really haven't called him. then before we went back to school, we saw each other, and he called me and we got back together. we had been apart for 3 months then. the second time we broke up was because he thought i was cheating on him. but i proved to him i wasn't and so we got back together. third time, b/c we kinda had alot of drama.fourth time, he said he just didn't want me anymore, and now he's going with my ex-friend, and i REALLY REALLY WANT HIM TO COME BACK TO ME! my ex friend i think she was using me to get close to him. he says that he still loves me as a friend and a girlfriend. and that he misses the things i used to do for him, and when we made love. PLEASE HELP ME! I NEED HELP!
First problem is that he already has a girlfriend.
Second problem is that you two don't get along well together. Breaking up four times in 8 months is too much. And, you don't want to get used to having relationships with guys that break up a lot. It will make the rest of your life pretty bad if you make a pattern of breaking up.
But if you want to go ahead with him then continue to talk with him and if the time is right and he wants to come back, he will. Not much you can do but let him know you still care for him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com