But i just can let those thoughts of him cheating on me with her go.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have been dating my guy 4 1 month now. B-4 we started dating he was trying to get with this girl m**** 4 3 months but she claimed she did'nt want a boyfriend. so then i guess he stated talking to me and he asked me to be his girl and i said yes at the time i didnt know abot that other girl till a lil after we started dating. And now that he has a g/f (me) she told him that she likes him after she found out about us. I told him well if he wants her then just go back 2 her he says he dosent want her he wants me. but he still talks to her after i told him how i feel about him talking to her. he said that he dosent want to stop talking to her he said that that his friend. but i still think he has feelings for her and that theres a chance that he can cheat on me with m*****. we talked about he said i dont have nothing to worry about he said he only wants me. But i just can let those thoughts of him cheating on me with her go.
If you don't learn to deal with jealousy now, the odds are that you never will.
Trust is one of the bases of a good relationship. Without trust the relationship is almost certain to fail.
To get rid of jealousy you must fight it like the enemy it is. Whenever a jealous though comes in your mind, tell it to go away because you know your boyfriend loves you. Do this about 100 times and the jealousy will give up trying to bug you and will go away.
See also this website with more info on jealousy:
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com