I felt something inside I never felt before
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok I met this guy a while ago, and he was dating this girl the broke up not so long after we started talking. And like..altho we never actually hung out...we started talkin and he made me feel so special, and he told me things like I'm perfect, and he had strong feelings for me, and if I did believe in relationships he would ask me, ok and he finally got me to believe in it, and we did however hang out once, and he was very shy even tho he was with some friends, which one hates me for some unknown reason. And everytime he would talk to me, I felt something inside I never felt before, and he todl me he would wait forever to b with me. well I'm ready now. And I get a message from him, saying he was drunk and his friends bet me at poker and he lost me, and he cant talk to me no more, and that his friend won my number one spot on myspace, and he did not change that yet, and its been a few days. And he wont. And I got him to and he said he met a new girl and shes not better than me, and he wants to be single and do waht he wants, and he dont know what he wants, and he hates himself, and I told him its my turn, and I would wait forever for him. His friends I think did something. I dont know what I should do. Should I leave him alone, or keep trying. I'm totally crushed.
Thank you for your help.
I am sorry you are in this tough situation.
Gambling you away to his friends is about the worst thing a boy can do to a girl.
It means he thinks of you as nothing but an object and not as a person.
I don't understand why you want him back, but if you do, my advice is to stay in contact with him and let him know you still care about him and that you are willing to take him back.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com