I just feel like he is lying to me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hi. I have met this guy at work and we started to date. He is a wonderful guy. Basically everything that I dreamed of. We are in different departments, and this girl in his department always hits on him and wants to go out with him. He told me at this time that he loved me. He told me that he was tempted to go out with her. That if he wasnt seeing me that he would go out with her and even jump her bones. He told me that she is forbidden fruit. I have had many talks about this-but it always comes back.we are still dating-8th month, but I still feel uncomfortable with this issue. Now he says that he didnt have anything for her-"we are just friends."He says now that she was cute,she dressed nice,she had a cute smile, and that she had a great personality. That doesnt seem like they are just friends. I just feel like he is lying to me. What should I do?
Since you feel he is lying to you, you should leave him.
Your relationship is not going to last if he is lying and seeing this other cute woman. If you can't believe what he tells you then there is no point in pursuing him any more.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com