A part of me wants him to ask if I want to be his girlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I'm a nineteen year old virgin. I'm really new to intimacy, and even a relationship with a guy. I've had this crush on a guy, and back then he said he didn't really want a girlfriend. I was perfectly fine with that. He was just into casual sex among friends, and me beign a virgin didn't really want to get myself involved with that. Recently we've been talking, and says he wants to settle down with a nice girl. I later ask if I was this nice girl, and he said yes. I don't know if we are official yet, and I feel dumb asking him..because a part of me wants him to ask if I want to be his girlfriend. I'm pretty lost about what to do. We haven't really gone that far sexual wise. He knows I'm knew to this, so he's polite enough to ask. I'd appreciate any tips.
You are going to have to tease it out of him.
Ask him if you and he are official, and when he says yes, say to him "Well don't you think you should ask me to be your girlfriend?" Smile to let him know that you are happy about this but look him in the eyes so he knows you are serious.
As far as sex goes, be sure you are comfortable with what he suggests because you won't enjoy it if you are uncomfortable. Just tell him you are not ready yet.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com