Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok me and my girlfiend have problems she was hanging out with guys that i dont like and she kinda ignored me for alittle but but i ignored it then i kept getting mad at her because i kept trying to talk to her but she still would never listen then she started going to her friends house for awile then it came down to this one day see me and her have been going out for a year n a half and i love her but i dont think she feels as strong well anyways back to the story she was goin to her friends alot then one day we talked and she said she wanted to take a very very long break she said she loved me but not like she used to because everytime i got mad at her she would like me less and less then that goes on we both cryed through the night then the next day i come home from school just sitting around and she randomly pops up and tells me she dont wanna not go back out no more so we went out again and im just not sure if she really does like me i mean i feel alil connection but im not sure because im not always right well i was wondering if you can help me out with this relashionship because i dont know how to handle it well thank you
You and your girlfriend need to communicate more.
Have long, deep, honest, caring, and trusting conversations. Discuss how each of you feels about your relationship, your level of committment, and distractions that harm your love.
Only by sharing feelings and thoughts will you begin to bond better and grow a better relationship. It takes hard work to talk these things out so don't expect this to be a one time talk. In fact, all couples should be talking like this all the time to be sure everything is still ok.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com