She is acting hot and cold
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My Ex has come into contact with me 3 months after our breakup. I still love her, but she is acting hot and cold. It seems like everytime i try to give up she comes back in. When i get confortable she distances herself. She says one day she misses me, and the next she says she doesnt. What should i do with this situation when i know what i want and that it her?
Perhaps she is trying to be friends with you.
And perhaps you then start to come on too fast for her.
If she wants to be your friend, she should be willing to talk with you about your concerns. Have a long, deep, honest and trusting chat with her and see if you can get to the bottom of this situation.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com