We have a pretty normal relationship, however, sex and fighting have been an issue

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I'm sure this question has been asked, but I wasn't really satisfied. The situation is, my beau and I have been together for a little over 3 years, we've known each other for 10 years. We have a pretty normal relationship, however, sex and fighting have been an issue. I'm sure they go hand in hand, but I am not very 'needy' anymore. I am having problems getting turned on by my partner, it's quite ordinary. I then feel that this has caused unusual stress on either of us and without fighting directly about IT we take our aggression out in other ways. I am unsure about how to get 'the spark' back, since there is much animosity. I now almost feel embarassed to try anything new, even though I shouldn't. Thank you for your time...

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Yes, you are caught in a dilemma!

Sex makes you argue and then arguing makes you lose interest in sex.

You two are excellent candidates for professional counseling.

You may also look at this website for help:

Good luck! George

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