We have a pretty normal relationship, however, sex and fighting have been an issue
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm sure this question has been asked, but I wasn't really satisfied. The situation is, my beau and I have been together for a little over 3 years, we've known each other for 10 years. We have a pretty normal relationship, however, sex and fighting have been an issue. I'm sure they go hand in hand, but I am not very 'needy' anymore. I am having problems getting turned on by my partner, it's quite ordinary. I then feel that this has caused unusual stress on either of us and without fighting directly about IT we take our aggression out in other ways. I am unsure about how to get 'the spark' back, since there is much animosity. I now almost feel embarassed to try anything new, even though I shouldn't. Thank you for your time...
Yes, you are caught in a dilemma!
Sex makes you argue and then arguing makes you lose interest in sex.
You two are excellent candidates for professional counseling.
You may also look at this website for help:
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com