She has lost hope on me and thinking we are not meant to be together

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male and my girlfriend have together for more then one and a half year. we went through alot of ups and down.. few months back she dumped me thinking i was cheatin on her..but she got the wrong information but we got back together again.. and start back our love..a month ago.. we were heavily fighting.. and she dumped second time..sayin that she has lost hope on me and thinking we are not meant to be together.. i really went through depression.. tried callin her back .. beggin her, no response.. recently i heard from my friends that she found some one else.. for ur info.. she is 17 and he is 20..i think she has made the wrong decision.. some of my friends told me not to wait and dont call her.. others say just wait and just dont lose ur contact with her. my friends sayin that the guy she is with the guy right now is a rebound.. i really dunno wht to do.. thinkin of callin her on xmas.. just scared she wont reply.. please reply as soon as possible.. before xmas thank you.. Advice
I think calling on Christmas is a good idea.

You both will be in good spirits and she will probably talk with you.

Just ask her how she is, let her know you still care for her. Be cheerful, don't talk about your relationship, and limit the call to 15-20 min. Ask if you can call about once a week for just a short hello to make sure she is doing ok. If she is going to come back, this approach might help.

Hope this works out for you! George

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