Moving farther in relationship

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hello, while looking over your sight, I couldn't find a answer to my question. (there might be one but I might of missed it)

My gf is 15, and im 17. I don't want to move to fast or to slow for her. We have been going out for little over 2 months now, and just kiss (tease) each other, no groaping or anything. Could you list a possible answer to these questions.
What are great signs of her wanting to move futher in our relationship?
Is it ok to tell her, that shes in controll of the speed of the relationship? Because I dont care if we go to slow or to fast. I just want to be with her.

Thank you for your time. Advice
By this time you might start thinking of giving her regular kisses.

She will always signal that she is ok with what you are doing... the way to know is if she doesn't pull away from you.

Don't ask her to be in charge of the speed... although you could ask her if she wants to be in charge.

Remember she has the same interests as you do, it's just a matter of going slowly and making sure that you both feel comfortable with what you are doing.

Good luck! George

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