Going to movies with crush
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, I' ve writing to you about a girl who I have a crush on, and I sent an sms asking her out, remember?
Well, like she wasn't to be at home in the weekend, and we couldn't go out, today, I phoned her asking if she could go to the movies with me, this week, using an excuse that I alredy got a dvd that she asked me to get, I needed to be with her to give it to her.
She told me that she could go, but she to ask her mom what day could it be, because of something related to her brother. She will send me an sms saying what day it can be.
I was nervous talking to her on the phone, but I did it well and it wasn't hard, I think she couldn't notice that I was nervous.
What can I do so that the date goes as better as it can go?
I don't want to ruin my friendship with her, but I don't want to rush things either.
Do you think I'm doing well?
It sounds like you are doing excellently.
You arranged a date without being very nervous and she accepted.
Be very natural when you go to the movies. Don't let little worries run through your mind. Pay attention to the movies, ask her if she is comfortable. Keep in mind she is a friend and a human being. She feels pretty much the same way you do. Don't treat her as an alien creature. So this means talking to her and paying attention to her. Help her take her coat off if she has one.
Ask her if she would mind it if you put your arm around her. If she says it's ok then fine, if she says no don't worry about it. If you feel too shy to ask her, don't worry about it. That's the key to having a good natural time with her -- just don't worry about things and that will make her feel comfortable.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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