When we are alone we talk and we laugh but we find that we cant think of anything to say!

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hello! ok everything is going great! its 10 days now that we are bf and gf and things are good but we havent hang out a lot outside school! can this affect our relationship bad? but tommorw night we are going out !
i have finally got the guts to kiss her on the lips like a week ago an since then we kiis each other every day! but at the beginning wen i kissed her i dont think i felt anythin but now that we are improvin our kiss it feels better!!
i have somethin thats on my mind! she tells me she loves me and she wants to be with me and most times i can see thath for true! but do u remember that other guy i told you bout that makes jokes all the time? well i feel bad wen he is round coz i cant say anythin and my gf talks to him more than me! and he is my friend!! should i tell her how i fell ? like '' im sorry am not as funny as J* but this is how i am ''!! ???
Tomorrow night she suggested to go to mcdonalds and then to a cafe to sit! she told me i can bring J* if i want .. what should i do?
when we are alone we talk about stuff and we laugh but we get to a point that we cant think of anythin to say! soo any advice on wot should we talk about on our date??
school will close next week for christmas and i have bought her clothes as a present ( a top but its more for the summa) but i know she will love it coz its her colour and her style but its a cloth for summer .. do u think it will be ok?
how should i act on our date? cool and try to make jokes? or talk bout more serious stuff??
thanks guys!

RomanceClass.com Advice
It's annoying, but you will have to accept the fact that J* might be funnier than you are... of course you are more nervous so it can be expected.

Don't take J* with you to McDonald's... it's a date for the two of you not a threesome and J* already causes trouble for you.

There are an infinite number of things to talk about. Family, friends, school, teachers, classes, pets, music, movies/videos, vacations, holidays, feelings, plans for the future, etc. If you need more take a look at this webpage: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/whattalk.asp

Whatever present you got for her will make her feel good and happy. Don't worry over it.

When you are on dates, act like yourself... if you try to pretend it just won't work. So try to make her happy however you do it. It will probably be a combination of jokes, serious talks. The main thing is to let things go in the flow rather than trying to force things. You'll have a great time that way.

Good luck! George

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