I am just scared to reapproach him
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have something that I'm not sure how to handle. I went to a party a few months back and there was a guy there that I recognized from a previous job. I just fell instantly for him back then and hadn't seen him around until this party. We started talking and ended up together that night. Since then we have seen each other around town a few times and he has called two or three times but I never answered the phone (I was scared). I currently have a boyfriend that I like as a person but really don't love. My mind is always on this other guy, and everytime I see him I happen to be with the him. I have heard from friends that I might have a chance if I was single. Everytime I do see him I get that same feeling of wanting to know him better or possible build some sort of relationship. We are both the same age and have been through some of the same things in life I am just scared to reapproach him. Any suggestions?
If you are not going to do anything because you are scared then you should just forget it.
You are a grown up woman, not a teenager. Get over your scaredness fast. Call him up and tell him you didn't answer his calls because you were scared. He is going to ask why you are scared and you ought to have some decent explanation because otherwise he is going to think you are wierd.
Everybody is scared more or less... just don't let it affect your life.
Like I said, it's up to you. Get over it or forget him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com