I dont want her to think I'm obsessed which I'm not
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok theres this girl who I have just met and im really into her. Shes kinda into this other guy but thats ok for now because i dont really know her that well, but I want to get to know better and be friends but i dont want to be to pushy about it. School just let out so i dont really see her to much i just talk to her on myspace. How much is to pushy when it comes to just talking to her and getting to know her? I dont want her to think im obsessed which im not, i just want to get to know her better.
How about just coming right out and tell her "I don't want you to think I'm obsessed, because I'm not. I just want to get to know you better."
Short and sweet. It's not pushy it's just the truth and plain common sense.
If she want accept something that simple then she is not the girl for you and you should be thankful to find it out now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com