I made a lot of mistakes and I will not make them again
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years and have a sone about three weeks ago she came to me and said that she needed a break to see if this meaning are relationship is going to work during the course of our relationship i never really showed her that i loved her i was allways cought up in work and did not treat her the way she needed to be treated and now she has meet another man and she said he makes her happy we still live together so not seeing her is not an option she said that she will eventually want to work things out but right now she is happy i hurt so bad and dont know what to do to get her back i made alot of mistakes and i will not make them again but i want to get back together bad and i need some advice on what to do
thank you in advance
Tell her you love her and want her to be happy.
Tell her you know you have made mistakes and you are going to work to fix them. Do all this talking in a kind and loving way... no arguing.
Bring her little presents or flowers for no reason. Buy her several nice holiday presents. Help her take care of your son... she may be worrying that you will shut him out the way you shut her out.
Give her a hug whenever she comes home... and a kiss.
In other words, do as much as possible to make her feel loved and wanted at home.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com