We've been in a off and on relationship for over nine years
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a couple months ago and now the girl he cheated with is pregnant and there's a possiblity that the baby could be his. We've been in a off and on relationship for over nine years and we have two children together. I have cheated on him and the past and he has forgiven me, we have broken up an gotten back together several times. Can our relationship be saved?
If you've been doing this for 9 years, there's a good chance that you can or will keep doing it.
Have you two ever considered professional relationship counselling? It certainly sounds like you could benefit from it. Your children would also be better off too... your relationship must confuse and hurt them a lot and they probably think it is their fault.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com