When I hugged him I got this most wonderful feeling down my body that I haven't had for like ages!Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i'm 14 yrs old.
There's this guy i like ,well i think i like him. Him and is brother come to visit me everyday during the week because their dad works on a farm here where i live so they come here. Him and his brother are twins with total opposite personalities!
The twin i like is the 1st one.He's said that he's never felt like this for any other girl like what he's feels for me. He says the most sweetest things to me, like, "you have a beautiful smile" and he's aslo said that he doesn't know or understand how guys could break my heart.We went out a few days after we met (BIG MISTAKE THERE!!) So we went out for a week, till i broke up with him and said that we should first become good friends b4 we move into a relationship.On the Sat after we broke up he gave me a necklace he bought when we were going out. By the way when i broke up with him... (through smsing, VERRRRY BIG MISTAKE!!)On that day i was talking with his brother over the phone and all i could hear was him swearing and shouting in the backround (THAT WAS BAD!).That was like 2 months ago now. We've become very close over the days we've spent together. About 3 weeks ago,...we kissed. I'll NEVER 4get that kiss EVA, even though we both thought that we shouldn't have i atleast don't regret not doing anything. Ok so he REALLY REALLY likes me and i ... like him?! well yes but i won't go out with him, WHY? well i think whats stopping me is the fact he's 1 year younger but 2 grades lower than me because he has a SLIGHT mental problem (he can't read that well and spell some words. He's just not that clever either). I'm not a shallow person at all, but he's not the greatest looking out.
Good thing he likes everything about me! there's not 1 thing he doesn't. he makes me laugh coz of a bit of his stupidity and he laughs with. he makes me smile not only laugh.i feel comfortable around him.even though we just friends we hold hands and hold eachother sometimes, well it only started this week. Hes quite romantic, he very different to other guys i go out with.He really wants to go out with me but my feelings for him are mixed up!we good friends and i want it to stay that way, hes soon going to be moving in the area where i live.So i have much time with him. Should i just stay friends and not think about more than a friendship with him?
P.S. sometimes i don't like him as much as i do at other times. when i hugged him a few days ago i got this most wonderful feeling down my body that i haven't had for like ages! I've dreamt about him 2ice in one week!
Sori its a bit long.
Seems your mind is telling you one thing and your body another.
You run the chance of him becoming obsessed with you and maybe becoming a stalker. You heard how angry he was when you were talking with his brother.
My advice is to listen to your mind, it seems likely to be more reliable.
Keep him as a friend, you can always go to the next level later.
Good luck! George
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