He says I'm still the only girl
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
my ex and i were together for 6 1/2 months. and he was my first love. well we broke up about 8 months ago and im still completely in love with him. i had you answer a question abotu our fighting and you said calm down a little. soo i didn and things were going really well we barely fight anymore. if ever. but the thing is his new best friend and i dont get along at all. he tells him not to like me cause im gross, a whore. etc. when i barely hang out with guys and if i do its JUST FRIENDS. my ex knows i still love him and he tells me he cares about me but he doenst think hes goign to go anywhere with this relationship cause he doesnt wanna go through that again cause i obviously really hurt him. he said he is stubborn and that he wants to get closer but hes scared so he pushes me away. and he is very influenced by his friends. i tried to make peace with his friends but they just dont seem to want to. they say they thought we were a good couple but they know if him and i go back out that they will never see him. which is not true. im soo in love with my ex. and he says im still the only girl. what can i do to make him see im worth a second chance?
You are in a bad spot.
It's been eight months since you went out with him and right now he only wants to be friends with you. And, his friends don't like you.
To get him back, become his best friend and be there for him whenever he has troubles and needs a warm shoulder and a sympathetic ear. If that doesn't work it is time to move on and stop wasting your time on him.
There are plenty more fish in the sea.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com