He was my first boyfriend and the only person I ever loved
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi. my sitution is complexed. i fell in love with a boy. we was only going out in the summer for 2 months but i really loved and and he said he loved me. toward the end of our relationship he gave some girl in the neigborhood a hickie. i just heard this from the people that know him and what happened. we never talked about it and i found out after we broke up. i wasnt really able to go to his house everyday like i use to so when i called him he would get an attiutde and not talk on the phone at all. finally i just stop calling him. he didnt have my number but he would ask my friend about me and happened. a year later we met up at my friends house and kissed and stuff thats all. i gave him my new number but he never call. i really want him back. so i called a few days after his b-day to see how he was doing and he didnt even talk to me. i asked if he would hang on and he hang out. when i called back some lady picked up and said to never call her house again. i dont know what went wrong. please help im really confuse. he was my first boyfriend and the only person i ever loved. it seems like i cant move on. please help!
He was your first boyfriend which means you don't know very much about relationships.
Nothing wrong with that, but it means you need to get used to falling in love and then either falling out of love or being dumped. Right now you have been dumped. It's harder to get over a love when you are the one being dumped.
Stop trying to call him and ask your friends to find out the names of some boys who are looking for girlfriends. You will find a very nice boy who will treat you better and you will find you love him after a little while.
Forget the old boy. He wasn't good enough for you. So find someone who is.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com