Is he just having fun or does he want a relationship?

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I have had a huge crush on one of my high school teachers after i graduated i went up to the shcool to visit and he gave me his e-mail to keep in contact with him, we e-mailed back and forward alot. Its been 3 years and i just recentlly started to go to the school to do observations and i hang after his class and we talk, he called me every now and than. 2 weeks ago we went on are first date and he kissed me twice, since than i went to the school and he asks me to walk him to his classes and one day he even asked me to stay after for his wrestling practice, he calls me now like once a week and now he asked me to come to his wrestling team match , so we can go out afterwards. the thing is i am 22 and he is 36, he want me to keep it quite about us going out to my teacher friends but he told his friend who is a teacher about us, i just don't know if he is just having fun or do he wants a relationship. Advice
My guess is that he's just looking for fun.

If he were interested in a relationship he would be calling more often and asking you out more.

But hang in there and find out for yourself. I could be completely wrong about this. It shouldn't be too long before you will be able to figure it out. You might even want to ask him about how he feels.

Good luck! George

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