How do I get her back?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I NEED HELP IT'S BEEN ALMOST 4 MONTHS SINCE I LOST MY EX BUT SHE SAYS SHE STILL LOVES ME SHE HAS BEEN THROUGH 4 BOYFRIENDS ALREADY AND IM STILL WAITING ON HER.WERE NOT TOGETHER BECAUSE I CHEATED ON HER TWICE AND THEY WERE LIKE HER SISTERS TO HER AND WHEN WE BROKE UP I MESSED AROUND WITH BOTH OF THEM A COUPLE TIMES BECAUSE I WAS JEALOUS OF HER BOYFRIENDS AND SHE WOULD NEVER TALK TO ME WHEN SHE WAS GOING OUT WITH SOMEONE,THEN SHE FOUND OUT AND IS MAD AT ME FOR NOT TELLING HER AND LYING TO HER ABOUT IT,SHE SAYS THE ONLY THING THAT COMES OUT OF MY MOUTH IS LIES CAUSE SHE KEEPS ON HEARING RUMORS ,SO SHE TELLS ME IT'S HARD FOR HER TO BELIEVE IT WHEN I TELL HER I LOVE HER.AND WORST OF ALL I LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE WITH HER AND HER OTHER EX!HOW CAN I SHOW HER I REALLY DO LOVE HER,HOW DO I GAIN BACK HER TRUST,HOW DO I GET HER BACK PERIOD.
You are going to have to a lot of convincing.
You cheated on her twice with very close friends of hers only four months ago and then continued to fool around with them since then. And she still hears rumors. Why should she trust you and believe you love her?
Are you very good friends with her now? If not my advice is to start there. Be the best friend you can and start talking with her and sharing feelings like you used to do. Apologize to her for cheating on her. Show her you still love her by your actions.
Take her out for dinner, give her flowers, give her candy, and be a perfect gentleman with her. Do whatever she wants you to and treat her friends nicely too. She is looking for signs from you to show her that you have changed for the better.
It's the holiday season, take advantage of it... buy her a nice present and give it to her as soon as possible.
Laugh with her and show your love as much as you can.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com