My everything was completely gone
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
At first we were just friends. Friend since the 6th grade. i didnt begin to get fellings for her until i was in the 9th grade and then thats when we starting flirting and going out with each other. she started out kind of to strong for me saying "I love you" and stuff like that so early in the relationship. It wasnt till the 6th month until i started to love her back. When it hit that i loved her it was hard. I realized that i loved her with all my heart and soul. i wanted to marry her right then and there i guess that was a problem there. so the school year was ending around this time i during the summer the both us travel alot. we decided that we were going to stay together without a doubt. a when it was time for us to come home we were going to pick back up and we did. i felt like the luckest man on earth with her. you just dont understand how special she was to me she was better than a soul mate. back to the story though. about a month passed and we i guess we got kind of boring not seeing each other like we were used to cause of school and started to drift away in a since. all of a sudden it just snapped we got the arguing and bam before i knew it was over. it was about 3 days before we went back to school an d a tried to give her space until school started back up. I mean it was just three days. when school started she didnt talk to me the first to days and i saw her talking to other boys. of course i was bothered. By the time we started talking back with each other it was about the second week. comes to find out that she was with someone else. what made it worst was she was with her ex. damn i couldnt and didnt want to believe it. my everything was completely gone. she told me about him when we was dating and she claimed she loved him also. they keep going on and off with there relationship and this has been going on for about 5 month. some one anyone help me i need my babygirl back my everything. we still talk but "AS FRIENDS???"
The key element is to stay in contact with her.
Whenever you pass her in the hall or see her elsewhere, make sure to say Hi plus her name with a big smile.
Once a week call her and ask her how she is doing and let her know you still care for her. Limit the call to 15 minutes, be cheerful and don't discuss your relationship.
You might want to buy her a holiday present too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com