Long Distance romance is love?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
We met on a matrimonial site.Im 18 doing my final year at skul(form 6),his 20 & doing his final year in university. He got my add from this site,his a member there too and he added me in msn.. V started chating online its 1 month now.. his in the uk and im in kenya. He keeps on saying he cares about me and he feels comfortable talking to me, he recently told me think about me for 5 mins before doing your exam u will score an A grade.V r in touch via mails, v chat once in a while thats because v both r busy. Ive started really having great lovely feelings for him, when he saw my pic he commented that im a part of the moon!! he sends me cards and tels me to keep in touch. He was heartbroken by a girl he once loved and lost his mind and was treated by a phsycologist..he has told me all about himself.He also knows that i'l be coming to the uk for further studies and he once told me i wish u would have applied to (portsmouth) thats where he lives.. Its soo difficult to know whether he loves me or feels the same..plz help me( give me tips) to find out if he does..i really want to know and im scared to tell him directly because i really value his friendship and dont want to lose it...he also told me once that im an angel and though v r miles apart when he feels down and has no one to talk to he closes his eyes and looks into his heart and he finds me there..its difficult to know if he likes me because v havent even met and v r sooo far away...plz help me and give me guidelines though ahvin my final resits on jan i find myself waiting for him online..i cant stop thinking about all he tels me plz help me i want to know if he luvs me too.plz
Try this... give him a hint and see how he responds.
For example tell him that you are "developing strong feelings" for him and that you wonder how he feels about you.
This should not be too difficult for you to do and won't scare him off.
My guess is that he loves you too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com