Is ex done with me?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
me and my ex has been together for a year. I moved away for the summer but stayed together. she came and seen me twice. but after a while i got to missing her and began to accuse her of cheating even though i knew she wasnt. we took a "break" but i couldnt handle it. I would ask her stupid questions and just piss her off. I was in the process of moving back to the state because her family is helping me my feet. We broke but still talk all the time. I kept asking questions and accusing but she kept telling i dont know how i feel. I get in town she is avoiding me but mad because i didnt tell her i was on my way. I tried to talk her twice she said sorta kinda moving on but didnt look to confident then i ask her again she was piss and upset at me. I work close to her family and if i call her she'll call back. I care so much but i dont want to be chasing a lost cause even though i love her so much. Is she really done or what?
Give her the space she needs and the contact that you need.
To do this, call her only once a week to ask her how she is doing, to let her know that you still care, and to maintain contact. Be cheerful, don't talk about your relationship, and limit your call to 15 mins.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com