I think I'm still in shock and it hasnt clicked in yet that its over!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Dear Romance class,
I truely loved my bf. We knew eachother inside and out. Without using words, we felt what the other person was going to do. We could finish eachothers sentences. All day long, he was the only person I'd think about. My first thought when I woke up in the morning, and the last person I'd think about at night.
Yesterday he broke my heart in the worst of ways. Over messenger. When I asked him why he did this in this way, he told me that it was because he was a coward. He said he broke up with me because he was affraid of being attatched. I knew the real reason that he wasn't telling me. It was all my fault. I should have been a better gf and maybe payed more attention to him. I should have been kinder to him. I was affraid of falling in love because everytime I do, it always ends in heartbreak.
He still wants to be my friend. He told me no matter what happens, he will always care about me. I don't feel the same. I feel that its too soon to decide if we should stay friends. But another voice in my head is telling me to be friends with him.
Last night, I couldn't sleep. I kept waking up wanting to cry. Almost everyone who knew about us knows that he broke up with me. (except my parents) They are all telling me that I'll meet someone better than him. He even said that himself. The truth is, I don't want anyone else. I want him.
Please help me because I am so confused. I think I'm still in shock and it hasnt clicked in yet that its over! I don't know what to do.
Yes, you are still in shock from what happened yesterday.
But you've been through this before and you know it will turn out ok.
Try to remain friends with him because if you want him back then that's the best way to get him back.
Listen to your friends... you will find someone better.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com