After the movies she said she loves me and I said I love her too!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hello guys! i know im writting too soon again but there is somethin that i cant get off my mind! ok on saturday night we went on our first date to the movies and we were holding hands! it was good but its like we cant come up somehtin to talk about! i mean we talk about stuff but not a lot! the next day after the movies she said she loves me and i said i love her too! round school sometimes she is shy but she always want be to be round her ! today i asked her to be my g/f and she said ''ye ok'' ! i mean i tell her all these romantic things and all she does is just smile and look me in the eyes but never says ''me too'' just smiles and says ok , and that makes it harder for me to be more cool around her! why do u think she does that? and another thing i have this friend that every time i go to meet up with my g/f he comes along coz there are some other girls there too! but he is always funny and does a lot of jokes and my g/f always laughs! im kinda jealous of that coz i would like to be as funny as he is but i cant come up with anythin.. ! im afraid that she might start developin feelings for him at the end ! i hope not!! but 2day the last break she run into him and she asked him about me like where am i ?etc.!
should i be worried about this??
she is 16 and im 17 and i wanna do special things with her to keep her with me. any suggestions??
do u think i shouldnt tell ehr all the time that she is beautful and i love being with her? help me!! i have tried soo hard to make her like and i want things to go well between us!
You are sweating things too much.
You held her hand in the movies, she told you she loves you, and you said the same. Don't worry about all the stuff you told me. It just gets in the way of having fun--which is one of the things a relationship is about.
If you need things to talk about see: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/whattalk.asp
Remember that she is waiting for you to hug and kiss her... do it the first time you are alone. Don't forget! And don't forget that the holiday season is one of the best times. Go to the mall with her and help each other do some shopping. Go for a walk in the park or by a river. Ask her if it's ok for you to come over to her house and hang out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com