she only cares for me as a really close friend

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I really like this girl,

I liked her before nce but that was only liking her but she liked me to but she was unsecure about relationships so nothing happened.. But later that year i noticed that I couldn't stop thinking about her....
(happy when she's around, part of me feels hallow when she's not, All I want to do is make her happy and it makes me feel bad when she's down)

She was sorta going out with this guy but he's lied to her so many times he's played other girls before her (he asked one girl out, she said no so the next day he was kissing another girl, another time he said he should just have sex with the new girl the dump her and told me to do the same, i didn't)

They had gotten preatty close (dry sex, touching down there. Yet after that he said it didn't do anything for him but the thing is he said it x2, I personally think he only want's her for sex, he can act and fake cry which he has used to his advantage.. me and my 2 of my mates think the same about him one of my mates think because he never had a strong mother figure he is using her nice and caring nature to replace as a mother figure)

She isn't going out with him anymore because of the lies and stuff, but she still has feelings for him which I respect...

she knows how I feel for her and stuff yet she only cares for me as a really close friend what the heck do I do.. Advice
When a girl likes you as a best friend the best thing is to take advantage of it.

Use the friendship as a platform to build trust, caring, honest, and trust. That will lead to stronger feelings between you. So, share with her your concerns about life and she will do the same. A good bond will result. Before you know it you may become more than friends.

Hope this works out for you! George

-- from George
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