I don't like people who stick to me all the time
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hello. According to all the advice on this site, this girl should like me. But, one thing, she does the same things to all her other friends from what I can see. (I can not hear what she says to her friends though.) This means that when she walks she puts their arms around them etc, hold hands, etc. no matter the gender.
She does this to me as well. We go to saturday language classes every week, with 2 other friends, both girls. (one of whom I like very much, talekd to you about it before, no problems yet, thanks!). We became friends because we came from the same high school, and everyone else in that saturday classes came from others.
But when we finish the lesson. (theres 5 classes total, depending on people's ability), this girl (lets call her L), she tugs me away from the girl I like, even when I try hard and go back, because we all agreed on waiting for each other...
And then, one day L was late to class (she is in mine, while the other two was in a higher class), and our class went into another room to do something else, and she doesnt know. She sms me about where we are, and I replied. That day there was no chance for her to talk to me as she had to come into the back of the room. So the lesson ended, and I had to go to office to arrange something, then finish half hour later and went to my dad's car to our family trip he'd arranged. The other 2 frds didn't call, and that was strange.... (I have a feeling L persuaded them to leave without me, or not....)
After I got home and got on msn several days later, however, L messaged me "thx for replying the other day. I am sorry i didnt thnk you were you pissed off?"
and I was like wtf in my head (I don't remember things down to this detail...) and said "umm?"
so she replied
"nth. just didnt say thnk u. and u ignored me after class"
But i swear that I did look around for any frds before leaving, and she wasn't there... Then L said that she was behind the building talking to someone else...
how the hell would I know she was there!!!
Sorry for being so long.... I am crap at summarising...
And if she likes me, I wouldn't know what to do, because I don't like people who sticks to me all the time even when they know it... *sighs*... but i dont want to lose frd either....
It sounds like you need to have a chat with L and try to agree on what your relationship is.
You may discover that it is just the way you want it to be.
You can't find out without asking.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com