she just turned 21, she loves going to the bars--I'm only 18
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I dated this girl for 8 months. WE fell in love quickly. Time went on and we talked about a life together and that we wanted to marry each other, we even talked about little details of how our wedding should be. We had an arguement right before we broke up becuase i had been using natural family planning and that made her feel dumb. She then said she wanted to see other people. She i dumped her. A few days later she gets this guys number from a friend. They meet up the next week. They have been dating for 1.5 months now. WE have been apart for just under 2 months. I made all the mistakes, crying begging. She asks me if i still love her from time to time. I tell her yes. She says she misses me also. We still hangout as friends like once a week and its usualy just shopping. I asked her if they were in love and she replied "yeah :( " (she even included the sad face.) And an hour later she told me "half of my heart whats smoething new and the other half wants you : /" without me even asking. I want her back so badly. Shes all i think about, and dream about. SHe has moved on though. Part of the problem i think is since she just turned 21, she loves going to the bars, and now she can go with her 25 yr old bf. Im only 18, so i have a few more years. I really want her back! What can i do or say to her?
Just keep doing what you have been doing (except for crying and begging).
Enjoy her company and make sure she enjoys yours. She may tire of her new bf and come back to you.
Buy her a Christmas present and try to get her to go to some party with you. That will bring you closer together.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com