We talk on the phone all the time, sometimes she tells me about her guy problems
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There's this girl who I have been friend for awhile now and we've gotten pretty close these last couple of months. There has not been a day in the last couple weeks that we haven't talked to each other on the phone and she always wants to go hang out with me but I always end up not going due to my busy schedule but she still insist on hanging out everytime she gets a chance to be away from her own busy schedule...Even though we talk on the phone all the time, sometime she tells me about her guy problems and it eats me up everytime inside everytime I hear it because I think I'm falling for this girl...So my question is, what should I do? I've been meaning to confront her about it but one side of me tells me that it's already obvious that we're just close friends...but then again another side is very curious but I do not want things to get weird if she doesn't feel the same...What should I do? And how should I approach the topic?
Let her know you care.
Do this by telling her that you are "developing feelings" for her. This phrase will not upset her and it will give her a chance to respond with how she feels. If she doesn't have a clear answer right away, tell her you will give her time and ask the next time you see her. And then do it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com