after all those time I've waited, I still like A*.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi! This is my situation and seriously I don't know what I should do, so your advice will be much appreciated...
Ok, there's a girl(B*). B* says she loves me and etc. We know each other since last year. If you remember what I mentioned in the last few e-mails, she leans on me and hugs me everytime she sees me and I thought she has a bf, but she told me, that's her ex.
B* realy wants to go out with me, but seriously I don't know what to do on a date. And there's another problem, she loves me, but I don't like her as much as she loves me, she's a great person and I really like her, however I still like A*, after all those time I've waited, I still like A*.
Then I tried to ask A* out, she said 'I dunno' first, but then she said 'It's more likely a yes'. Then she said she doesn't want a bf right now...And she knows about B* and thought me and B* are going out(thanx for my friends' lie)
and said I was cheating on B*...
Here's my mess,B* wants me,she wants us two going out and make out, bt I think I want to be with someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship right now...Am I crazy?
What should I do? If I choose to go out with B*, what should I do for a date?
Tell A* that you are not dating B* and that you want to go out with A* to a movie, a walk in the park, or whatever. Tell A* that B* likes you a lot but you like A* much more than B*.
A* sounds like she's on the fence so you need to encourage to land on your side. Keep talking with her and making her feel special. Pretty soon she may come your way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com