BUT I DO HAVE A BIG CRUSH ON HIM
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
well i am currently 15, and i have a crush on this guy that is in the same grade as me. Well, i really like him a lot since we've been friends for a long time. BUT I DO HAVE A BIG CRUSH ON HIM. he's not like a hot guy or watever. But he said that he treats me like a sister. It sort of made my heart skipped a beat when i heard that. I don'tk now what to do. I think about him quite a lot.. I care about him. I help him with homework. What can i do to show him that i love him?
It probably wouldn't be a good idea to tell him you love him.
Instead be gentle and slow about it. Tell him you are "starting to develop feelings" for him. He should understand that since it is a natural thing.
If he doesn't answer or is wishy-washy tell him you will give him some time to think it over and ask him again the next time you see him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com