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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i have a friend that ive known her for a long time now, she is like my best friend, my friend had told me that she had some feelings for me, but i was afraid to mess everything up between me and her so i didnt do anything about it. now im going crazy for her, but now im afraid if i ask her out and she says no that it will make everything weird between me and her, and i really want me and her to become more than friends, but i dont know how to do it.please help this girl really means alot to me.thanks
Strike while the iron is hot.
You don't have to be overbearing about this, take it slow and gentle. That way you can backup if you detect displeasure from her.
When you are alone some time casually say that you are "starting to develop feelings" for her. This is not going to scare her because it is perfectly normal. If she has feelings for you she will say so too and you two will be off to a great relationship.
If she doesn't reply or is wishy-washy just say that you'll give her some time to think about it and ask the next time you see her.
Hope this works! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com