I am too scared to talk to her in the first place
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok,i liked this girl and i thought that she liked me so i wanted to ask her out.then some how the girl had gotten the information that i liked her out of one of my friends.
in the next few days it was spreading and she keped looking at me. so a few days after that i asked her out over the phone and she said umm sure ok.. bye! then another boy asked her out and she said that she had to check to see if she was dating someone and so i wrote a letter that said i would like to but if you like him better go ahead.and then she wrote a letter back to me that said i might just be your friend and not go out with anyone.but then the other boy got her a necklace and so i was thinking of getting her a piece of jewlery too.but i am too scared to talk to her in the first place at the same time every body is finding out. i need help to try and get her!!!
How do you expect to go out with her or date her if you are afraid to talk to her?
You need to practice talking to her and other girls so you don't end up being shy too long. Whenever you see her in the hall greet her look her in the eye, say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name, and give her a big smile.
Eventually you will find that the two of you are chatting like long lost friends. Do the same thing with other girls just for practice. But, don't be surprised if some other girls fall for you.
This other guy may have an advantage over you now so if you really want her you better get your rear in gear and say hi to her and write more letters and buy her something.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com