I'm not a badge bunny.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I'm a 20 year old female who has never been on a date, let alone had a boyfriend before, so this is completely new territory for me.
Anyways, there's this guy that I like, and I think he may like me too and he keeps showing up at the same places as me (coffee shop [which I'm now employed at], bar, store I used to work at, my cousins' wedding.) I know a lot about him (he went to college with my cousin's husband and they're friends), but I don't know if he knows much about me other than my name (maybe). I think he's around 25 or 26 and I'm pretty sure he's single. (I've never seen him with another girl before and he showed up at my cousins' wedding alone.)
I've talked to him a total of two times. Once at the store I used to work at I asked him if he needed a hand with anything and he said no, and the second time was in the coffee shop and he smiled at me and asked me if I was in line. (I'm shy, not big on talking.)
One time at the coffee shop that I frequent I was sitting with my friends and he was there with his friend. My friends pointed out to me in my car that he and his friend were pointing and laughing at me and every time my friends would look at them, they'd duck out of the way. I also caught them staring at us out the window as we leaving in my car.
Now everytime I see him I catch him looking at me. As soon as he notices me looking at him he turns away or tries to hide it by pretending to yawn.
I just started working at this coffee shop now too so I'll be seeing a lot more of him. He went to the same college as I plan on attending and took the same program I want to (criminal justice) so we'd definetly have something to talk about.
Does it sound like he likes me? I'd ask him out, but whenever I see him lately he's working and considering his profession (law enforcement) it probably wouldn't look good if I approached him at tried to hook up with him while he's on a coffee break (and no, I'm not a badge bunny. I like this guy for who he is on the inside, not the uniform.) Also, if he does like me, because he's my cousin's husband's friend, would dating him be a big no-no? I don't think he knows exactly who I am and how I know him so well. (I don't want him to think I'm a stalker. I just know so much about him from what I've witnessed and what my parents have said about him.
There is nothing to prevent you from dating him.
Ask him out before someone else does.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com