She was in her pajamas and thought she didn't look good and I told her she looked great

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I think it has been about a month since i chatted with ya george on the prospect of my ex. The roses didnt work out too well so i just focused on me and improving myself. I quit smoking (which she hated me smoking in the first place), and im going for my brokers licence. I also followed thru on my promise to her brother and took him to a football game. When i picked him up for the game i got all dressed up and everything for her and she noticed. She got all flustered cuz she was in her pajamas and thought she didnt look good and i told her she looked great. I caught her glancing at me a couple times which was good. I send her cards spread out, but she still isnt talking to me, only bc she really is busy. Ive noticed progress, should i keep going? I really still love this girl, you were right in our first convo, college really brings a shock to people that usually goes away. there's little things ive noticed that she does that makes me hope. and plus shes still not dating yet. im taking this one day at a time. Any pointers? Advice
Don't have any pointers for you. You seem to be doing fine on your own.

Your efforts to improve yourself are excellent. Your ex will be very proud of your changes.

It's too bad she doesn't have time to talk with you since that is the best way to get back into her heart. If you can pull it off, call her once a week and talk for about 15 mins. You can find out how she is doing, let her know you still think about her, and maintain contact. Be cheerful and don't discuss your relationship.

Best of luck to you! George

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