BUT I AM IN LOVE WITH THE OTHER GUY TOOO
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
HEY OK HERE IT GOES I AM 18 YEARS OLD AND I HAVE A 2YR OLD WITH GUY I AM CURRENTLY LIVING WITH. I LOVE HIM TO DEATH AND LOVE TO BE WITH HIM, BUT WHEN WE AREN'T TOGETHER I GET FEELINGS OF BEING WITH SOMEONE ELSE. I HAVE THIS EX THAT WE HANG OUT WITH, I DO HAVE GREAT FEELINGS FOR HIM AND HE IS ALWAYS FLIRTY WITH ME. LIKE WE TALK AND HE'LL TRY TO BE ALL CUTE AND EVEN SOMETIMES HOLD MY HAND. I ALWAYS CATCH HIM STAREING AT ME AND WHEN I DO CATCH HIM HE GIVES ME A CUTE LITTLE WINK. ANY WAY WE AND MY CURRENT BF ARE GETTING PRETTY CLOSE AND I KNOW THIS XMAS HIS PLANNING ON ASKING ME TO MARRY HIM. BUT I AM IN LOVE WITH THE OTHER GUY TOOO. HELP WHAT TO DO.
The first advice is what not to do. Do not accept a proposal while you are having these divided feelings about the two men.
Meanwhile, tell your boyfriend that you are having feelings for your ex. And tell your ex that your boyfriend is going to ask you to marry him. They may help you make your decision. Of course, you may end up with neither of them but that is the chance you take.
Try not to make a decision without talking with them as it will only complicate things.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com