I'm the kind of guy that will just ask, I'm a business man and that's how we think
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hi, i talked to you before about an ex-girlfriend, and well we wont get in to that. but im here to ask another question before i mess this up. there is this girl who i have had this thing for for about 4 mths. She goes to ohio state and i really like her. we flirt and get along very well. we always joke around and when we do i start to think she has a thing for me. the problem is sometimes i cant tell if she is playing hard to get or just isnt all that interested. what im asking is what is the best way to find out? now im the kind of guy that will just ask, im a business man and thats how we think. but in sales if you are too foward and loose the sale its not the end of the world, there are no emotions in business. in life however there are, and its not as easy. how do i find out without being to forward?
You could just right out ask her but, as you said, that might be too pushy.
Instead, why not ask her out for coffee or drinks or dinner? Her reaction should give you a good clue about how you are doing with her.
Best wishes! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com