Some of her friends tell me that I should try and get back with her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi i've been with my girlfriend for more than a month,we a 3 years apart and i missed just 2 days of being with her, all of a sudden she just brakes up with me, saying that it got boring. she then said that she wanted to stay friends and that is what i am trying to do now. the problem is that everytime i try to be friendly and say hi when we walk by each other, she gives me the cold shoulder and just leaves. i asked her friends what was the real reason for breaking up with me and all of them said that they don't know what happend, saying that maybe i was too old for her. some of her friends tell me that she says she hates me but they think it's not true becuz she never told them why she hates me. some of her friends tell me that i should try and get back with her but i don't what i should do. i want to get back with her but if she does hate me, i don't think i have a chance and i don't want to push her. what should i do? i wanna know the truth but i can't figure it out, not without asking her personally but i don't think thats the right way to go, becuz it may ruin my chance of getting back with her. what should i do? any kind of helpful suggestions will be greatly appreciated.
I agree with you.
She refuses to talk to you and if you push it, her reluctance will only increase.
Your break-up was rather serious and it is doubtful that you will be able to repair it.
Here is a useful webpage about break-ups:
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com