I have told her my feelings and that I need her in my life. She won't come back to me though
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi there, me and my ex "A" were going out for about a month and a half. And we didnt see eachother that often so when we did we really enjoyed it, we kissed at every chance we got and we never stopped cuddling and telling eachother that we loved one another. And one night i went to her house and had a great time, and her friend "N" came over, which i didnt really have a problem with until the next day. I was told that "A" and "N" had kissed... since they were both girls and that A"A had me as a boyfriend i felt kind of hurt. And i was pretty sure that it was a make out kinda kiss. So i kept on asking her why she didnt and she wouldnt give me a straight answer... and then finally about 4 days after she said it wasnt even on the lips and that she was P*ssed off at me. I was relieved but still hurt that she was mad at me. And then about 2 days later she told me that it was over but i could still come to their school dance (since she invited me) and so i did. And i ended up giving her 3 songs i wrote and going out with "N". which i dumped about 6 days later... I have told my feelings and that i need her in my life. She wont come back to me though. I have been trying smoking since she dumped me and im beginning to quit that. And i told her that i might try drugs but everytime i do she says no because she doesnt want me to hurt myself and she would be really sad if i died. Now i NEED this girl back, she went to the movies tonight with a guy that she likes yet all her friends think is really ugly. And i want her to be back in my arms.. not some sleezy guy who is around her just for her looks... i LOVED her for everything about her and i still do. What can i do to get her back? (by the way i am 13)
Work your way back into her heart.
When you see her don't talk about your relationship. Just ask how she is doing and let her know you still care. Give her some space and time and she may come back to you.
Try to become a very good friend so she feels comfortable about talking with you and sharing her thoughts and feelings.
With any luck she will feel attracted to you and want to date you again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com