I threw out his second stash of porn and he doesn't know yet
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have a serious jealousy problem that im not to sure i can overcome. Im trying really hard but it just doesnt seem to be working. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years, and i know like all guys he likes looking at other woman. He doesnt do it in front of me which is good, but he loves PORN! He knows i hate it and i actually got rid of it all not to long ago but now its in the house again -Videos, pictures, posters you name it. And i cant stand it! It drives me crazy - It makes me think that im not good enough for him thats why he has to look at this stuff - He doesnt go to strip bars because i told him i cant stand that at all and the relationship would be over if he ever went to one. I threw out his second stash of porn and he doesnt know yet - IM afraid when he finds out things might end? I dont never wanted to fight about this but i cant take it? Please HELP!
Since this is such a big issue between you perhaps you should split.
Another possibility is to get professional counseling for the two of you so you might be able to find some compromise for this seemingly insolvable problem.
But my guess is that counseling wouldn't do much unless your b/f could be convinced to drop his preference for porn.
Sorry you are in this situation! George
-- from George
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