What should I do next to try and win her back?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
This is an update from my previous question.
AAAAAARRRRRRGGG!!!! what to do?
Well this new guy broke up with my ex and strange but true, me and him have become very good friends. Now the problem is she can't stand it. Yesterday she invited me to a party at a friends house, and when I got there he was there as well, and we started talking, she joined in and we had alot of fun. When she wanted to leave,she asked him if she could drop him off, and he said that he would like to spend time with me, which made her cross, asking me to tell him that he should go with her, which I don't want to start off with.
She phoned me later and insisted on me braking off my friendship with him or she will write both of us off, we ended up having an argument, which I know for a fact is not what I should do with her right now(cause I want her back).I said some stuff which I regret, and now I'm so confused at what to do, because it feels like everything I do is wrong and I'm not winning her back. She still loves me but this situation is weakening it. At the end of the conversation I told her that out of respect for her I'll back-off and give her time to be friends with him, she said that when she goes out and he's there then she will not invite me, and vica versa. What should I do next to try and win her back?
Try this: give her a weekly call to see how she is doing, to let her know you still care, and to maintain contact. Don't talk about your relationship, be cheerful, and keep the call to 15 mins.
This will give her the space and time she needs and give you the contact and hope that you need.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com